实习医生格蕾 第三季

当你真正看到那些热闹的美剧或者TVB剧并且无比欢喜的时候，其实你有没有发现自己的悲哀。那些电视剧里的美好亲情爱情和友情是那样的无坚不摧，可现实生活中的我们……

我越看《Grey's Anatomy》越觉得现实的悲哀， Meridith、Yang、George、Iz、Alex，这五个人的名字似乎是一种特殊的密码，旁人无法解开。无论爱情亲情如何想要在其中插一脚，却最终会发现他们的友情交织成自己的摸样，没有血缘的没有欲望没有功利的情谊其实比什么都纯净。

当Iz为女儿做骨髓移植George为了陪她而忘记和老婆的咖啡约会时；当 Meridith溺水在生死边缘Yang执着地要求Try again时；当Denny离开，Iz躺在卫生间的地板上他们轮番陪她说话时……那种超乎友情却又不像亲情那样腻歪的情感就让我不觉羡慕起来，本该是竞争者的五个人，却在吵吵闹闹中建立起这样的感情，干净的没有任何杂质，哪怕这期间也曾发生过混乱的爱情故事，却都无法将这样的友谊摧毁。他们有共同的目标，每天生活在一起，每天工作在一起，彼此关心彼此鼓励，哪怕一周有100小时的工作量他们都在一起相互温暖着，没有谁为此退缩。

它终究不过是电视剧吧，再看现实中的我们，因为读书工作感情瞎忙活，和朋友分分合合直到静下心来才发现真正说得了知心话的没有那么一两个。当莫名其妙的虚荣占据了灰蒙蒙的心，剩下的只有比较在作怪，于是情愿在SNS上用大把的时间晒出自己所谓的幸福生活，又或者固步自封，给自己贴上“宅”的标签，然后以低调的名义顾影自怜着。

虽然每天和无数的人说无数的亲热话，但在插科打诨中谁都摸不着谁在想什么？我们只能在清醒的时候和自己说话，这是多么可悲的孤独人生。忽然发现知己是比爱人更难遇到的缘分，即使它并不唯一。

   作为一部行业题材剧，《Grey’s Anatomy》延续了美肥皂剧的传统，典型的小社会圈，多样化的人物，复杂的关系网络，以及不断衍生的新关系与裂变的情感

    这让我很容易就直接联想到多年前的TVB的《妙手仁心》，故事都是发生在医院这个小型的社会圈，一个单一化的社会角落，却都包含了各式各样的人生，在医院中匆匆过往的病患中，从出生到死亡，得到与失去，上演了一幕幕的人间悲欢，却也囊括了大社会的人生种种，去感受生命，领悟价值的不仅是一个个病患，更是那些整日在医院繁忙穿梭的实习医生们

   《Grey’s Anatomy》属于典型的美式行业剧情片，出轨，一夜情，同性恋，多角恋…这些美剧应该有的感情元素在《Grey’s Anatomy》中一个也没漏掉，而美剧的优势就在于：不同的族群，阶级，性取向，文化身份都可以在其中一一展示，这就使GA与《妙手仁心》相比显得更加的多元化，那么在观看之初也就更有看头，各种关系渐变中所带来的好奇心与愉悦是引导观众持续观看的动力， 这也正是美剧的强项

    在前三季中，Grey与Derek分分和和，在确定与闪躲之间游移，加上Derek前妻Addison的出现，而她与Derek老友之间的暧昧，反而使得剧情变得更有看头；在经历了对Grey的暗恋，与护士的相恋，再与Callie的婚姻之后，兜兜转转的George还是转回到了Izzie身上；Alex则在工作的压力与模糊的情感中彷徨前进；性格固执好胜的两个人Yang与Burke在接连不断的摩擦中碰撞出爱的花火；主治疗医师Bailey在严厉和强硬背后其实也有不为人知的一面……

    这些实习生们，每天看着医院中别人的悲欢离合，奇样人生，却在同样的舞台上演绎着自己，为的是人生的最大实现，寻找人生的方向，价值的导航，以及自己可以依靠的真爱，虽然在感情上常常看来有时过于随便，却不知不觉中在这复杂纠结的过程之中逐渐迸发出人性的光芒
 
    近年来的美剧中亚裔面孔频频出现，不论是各大剧集中频频客串的Lucy Liu，还是之前大热的《Heroes》中的可爱小子Hrio与他的朋友Ando，《Lost》中的Sun与Jin，这些都为如今的美剧注入了新鲜的血液，从视觉和文化上均给观众带来一丝新鲜感。而个人认为《Grey’s Anatomy》中的Yang是此剧的一大亮点，人物特性十分鲜明，性格刚毅，争强好胜，处事态度过于理智，但时不时在工作中透露出一些冷幽默，当与同样强势的Burke两强相遇后，两个原本看似冷漠的人个性的多样面与温柔面逐渐展现，这种冷漠中的温情恰好是我这种观众最乐于看到的

    虽然之前的欢喜冤家Izzie与George最终或许可以凑作堆，其实早在剧集刚开始她们住到同一屋檐下的时候我就预料到会有这一天，但我却不喜欢这样的情感方式，Izzie久久不能忘记逝去男友，甚至到不愿再踏入医院从事自己一直向往的工作，却180度的反转去当了George第三者，到底她是受不了看到曾经的闺中密友被另一个女人Callie独占而心生醋意还是在此过程中发现自己的真感情，观众不得而知，或许都有吧，撇去道德与否的问题，只是这种突发的情感与其发生的方式却是让作为观众的我所不能接受的；Grey与Derek之间本以风云转晴的关系又再起波澜，两人协议分手，答应各自找寻自己的幸福；最为反转的是让人期待的Yang与Burke的幸福婚礼流产了，而当听说Burke在新季将会离开的时候，我对接下来剧情的期望降到了谷底

  《Grey’s Anatomy》 还在继续的不断上演，新的脸孔将会在医院出现，新的关系将不断的衍生，病患们的生老病死，悲欢离合仍然源源不断的在身边发生，新的烦恼也会不断的充斥到格蕾们的生活之中，伴随着预告中Burke的离开，Derek的新恋情，Grey妹妹的加入，Addison的离去又归来， George与Izzie间之间的纠葛，Callie的同性情感……不知我们是应仍抱有期待还是该就此放弃？
 
   当这些都不在是实习生的医生们继续他们的生活时，不是实习生的格蕾们还能叫《实习医生格蕾》吗？

       i could promise to hold you and to cherish you
　　i could promise to be there in sickness and in health
　　i could say till dead do us part
　　but i won't
　　those vows are for optimistic couples
　　the ones full of hope
　　and i do not stand here on my weading day,
　　optimistic or full of hope
　　i am not optimistic
　　i am not hopeful
　　but i am sure
　　i am steady
　　and i know
　　i am a heart man
　　i take them apart
　　put them back together
　　i hold them in my hands
　　i am a heart man
　　so this
　　i am sure
　　you are my partner
　　my lover
　　my very best friend
　　my heart,
　　my heart beats for you
　　and on this day
　　the day of our wedding
　　i promise you this,
　　i promise you
　　to lay my heart in the palm of your hands
　　i promise you
　　-----me

        当 burke在手术室里念他的结婚誓词时，真的深深的被感动了。以下贴出他的誓词 ：
 2009-03-07 12:31:10 laoshan (xihu xizi) Christina, I do promise, to hold you and cherish you.
　　（我本可发誓说，会呵护你，会珍惜你。）
　　And I promise, to be there in sickness and in health.
　　（我本可发誓说，无论疾病还是健康，不离不弃。）
　　I could say, till death do us apart, but I won’t.
　　（我本可以说，只有死亡才能使我们分离，但我不想说。）
　　Those vows are for optimistic couples, the vows full of hope, but I do not stand here on my wedding day optimistic or full of hope.
　　（那些誓言，是给那种乐观的，充满希望的人们的，而今天站在这婚礼上的我，并非如此。）
　　I am not optimistic, I am not hopeful, I am sure, I’m steady.
　　（我并不乐观，也并非满怀希望，但我确定，我很坚定。）
　　And I know, I’m a heart man, take them apart, put them back together, I hold them in my hands, I am a heart man, so this, I am sure, you are my partner, my lover, my very best friend.
　　（我知道，我掌控别人的心，我把别人的心拿开，又把它们放回。别人的心总在我的手上。我掌控着别人的心，所以，我确定，你是我的搭档，我的爱人，我的挚友。）
　　My heart, my heart beat for you. And on this day, the day of our wedding, I promise you this, I promise you to lay my heart in the pond of your hands, I promise you, me.
　　（我的心，我的心只为你跳动。而今天，在我们的婚礼上，我向你承诺，我，要把心交予你手，我把我自己，放于你手中。）




      一直从第一季追到第三季，看到burke离开了，并且再也不会回到剧中，我真的觉得再看没有意义了。burke专注，深情，宽容，执着，我觉得能嫁给这样的人是多么的幸福啊！！可是，为什么，yang,你为什么不主动一点，主动一点点，我多么希望你们在一起！
      深深喜欢burke~~~~
           回来吧！Dr burke！
   
         

      American medical TV series share too much in common. Like Emergency Room, it is always about sex and ex,broken heart and family, cheat and betray, gay and straight, unusual diseases which are once in a million, romantic dramas which are tri-angle or more. Surgeon, one of the most money-making careers in America, is just depicted to be perfect or should I say too perfect to be real. All the hard working and hard playing clealy make these doctors' life much more entertaining and worshiping.

      Can't remember why I watched Grey's Anatomy at first place. But the reason why I keep watching it is for sure, doctor Burke and my love of Grey's Anatomy B&C. Since it will be no more Burke in Seattle Grace after episode III, I believe there will be no more reason keeping me here. Truely it is time say goodbye.
    
      Doctor Burke, the best heart and chest surgeon for sure. The name it self represents the uncomparable wisdom, technique, delicacy and experience. The moment I saw him, I knew it is him. His confidence, calmness, devotion and dedication, he is the one who embraces all the best qualities you wish you could have. He never makes mistakes, because he is mistake-proof. He won't need pursue perfect, because he is perfect.

      Then he fell for some intern, Christina. Still can't remember who takes the first lead. But their relationship has been keeping steady and strong from the starting. No third-man interverence, no insatiable covetousness, no eating in the bowl while looking at the pot, no playing hard to get. It is not ambiguous, but simple. It is not dramatic, but sincere. It is not twisted but honest. It is not cheerful color, but crystal clear. Love me it you dare... Love me if you are the one... Burke loves Christina. He invites her to move in together. He needs her to be his invisible right hand on the operation when he couldn't handle it. He asks her to make the sacred vows before God. He wants her to be there for richer for poorer through sickness and health. He believes in true love and true heart. But this time, he hesitated. He never had any second thoughts about anything, that's the problem. He's not sure or steady any more. He knows about Christina. He's afraid that he knows her too well. He cares about her. He's afraid that he cares her too much. He wants her to be happy and what's best for her. He wants her to have what's she wants but not what's he wanted her to have. He wants her to be the Christina, not the woman he was trying to make her to be, not the woman he hoped she would become, just Christina. He doesn't want any change for her, any compromise from her. That's Burke, the doctor Burke who loves Christina and would be letting her go.

      As for C, she is just some intern, but still the best. She's got some potential to be one of the best attendings or surgeons. She's smart and competitive. But still she could also be stupid and dumb. She let go of something so beaufiful and precious. She let Burke leave and what's more she let Burke let her go. They never get married because it is not what she wants at that time, marriage or commitment. Career and family, why couldn't they have them all? When episode III ends, we see Christina standing in the empty apartment, in white wedding dress, desperately getting rid of the family tradition jewlery, crying for free. It's not home when it's Burke-less. It's not the Christina we love when it's Burke-less. She's just she, no more tags, just she.
      
      When Burke practised his wedding vows on the operation with other doctors and nurses witnessing, we nearly believed it, even himself believed it is time...for once and for real...
       
       I could promise to hold you and to cherish you
　　I could promise to be there in sickness and in health
　　I could say till death do us part
　　but I won't
　　those vows are for optimistic couples
　　the ones full of hope
　　and I do not stand here on my wedding day,
　　optimistic or full of hope
　　I am not optimistic
　　I am not hopeful
　　but I am sure
　　I am steady
　　and I know
　　I am a heart man
　　I take them apart
　　put them back together
　　I hold them in my hands
　　I am a heart man
　　so this
　　I am sure
　　you are my partner
　　my lover
　　my very best friend
　　my heart,
　　my heart beats for you
　　and on this day
　　the day of our wedding
　　I promise you this,
　　I promise you
　　to lay my heart in the palm of your hands
　　I promise you
　　-----me
  
      Nothing more to lose. Nothing more to remind. Nothing more to hold on to. And nothing more to have faith in. Burke could be chief if not for that accident. Burke could be happily married if not for that Chrstina. What remains in Seattle Grace is just some glorious records of his accomplishments. What remains in Christina's memory is just some fairy without a happy wedding ending. While what remains in my heart is always him, Burke, one and only. If I had the chance, I'd like to say those words exactly what Addison said: Don't marry her, doctor Burke, marry me instead.

      Time to leave Seattle Grace...Time to leave Grey's Anatomy...

      At least, I have said goodbye...

　　
      

       关于meredith差点死，首先她放弃生命的原因是她妈得了老年痴呆清醒之后恨铁不成钢的骂了她，于是她就想死了并且真的那样做了，你能理解吗？我不能！！！！！！！！！！如果这样，天朝多少人都不应该活在这世上了啊？亲！
       然后她溺水了不知道多久，又在医院里没有心跳几个小时，最后居然神奇的活过来了，而且身体机能没有一点损害，要知道大脑无血液灌注4-6分钟就会有不可逆损害。是4-6分钟，不是他妈的4-6小时。艹你妈的编剧，好的不学怎么跟天朝的编剧一样白痴了，好吧，我也想死了并且打算这么干。
       艹你妈的编剧！