吉尔莫女孩：生命中的一年

不能更relate to Logan的故事线了。

Rory毕业时Logan求婚，R没有答应，但是后来却做了Logan的情人，两人纠葛了小10年。乍一看不make sense，实际上很make sense。

第七季Logan生意上刚受挫，整个人陷入低谷，加之那两年他cheated on Rory，后来受重伤R还不离不弃照顾他，这一切加起来让他暂时的抛下家庭，偏向R。这个举动是冲动的，他当然爱R，但是求婚更多是出于陷入低谷的不安全感，出于对R的感激和依赖。他一时冲动离开了老爸的公司自谋前途，但含着金汤匙出生的L又能坚持多久呢？后来不还是回到了老爸的保护之下，和家人介绍的名媛订婚，甚至和R约会都去的家族企业下的餐厅。

R和L本就是两条线，只是在L极度vulnerable的时候短暂相交。即便当时R没有提出分手，后来L也会因为家庭和她分手。

而Rory，哦Rory！她自始至终都是一只扑火的飞蛾，从一开始她心里就很清楚和L不会有结果的，从他们刚开始交往，她就明知道L要的不是relationship，她以casual的方式进入L的生活；后来好不容易转正，去L家又被他家人奚落；到得知L毕业后就要去英国呆一年（虽然不到一年就回来了），她仍然一直坚持着，她知道和L终有一天要分开，但是在那一天到来之前，她选择饮鸩止渴。毕业时她对未来充满无限的希望，以为自己一定会在新闻界闯出一番天地，这也让她暂时的拥有了离开L的勇气。同样的，没过多久，她被现实打败，继而再度投入L那温暖、熟悉的怀抱，以一种一如既往的、self-desdructive的方式。但那时，L却已经回归了现实，头脑也恢复了清醒，于是两人再次以casual的方式在一起。Rory，once again，走上了一条没有终点的路。

把Rory写成冷静理智的、永远做正确决定的大女主的，事业爱情双丰收的happy ending固然是一个选择，但那样不真实。Aren't we all Rory? 至少我是（只不过没有她那么优秀和幸运），在寻找自己的历程方面，我们都和Rory一样。经历了该经历的弯路，最终都会戒掉Logan，重新找到人生的目标，start afresh。

PS：Rory最后怀孕，和circle没啥关系。Lorrelai高中没上完就怀孕，和Rory 32岁怀孕不是一个概念。再怎么说，R有家人朋友的帮助，自己又那么优秀，比L当年强多了。

看过七季和生命中的一年，尝试着说几句

祖母Emily：依附丈夫，传统婚姻，带些贵族味道的传统家庭女性；

妈妈Lorelai：不依附任何人，独立抚养女儿，崇尚独立，在艰辛的生活中自由寻找真爱；

女儿Rory：现代女性，不止崇尚独立，而且寻求实现自我；

也许这就是该剧的主题，反映三代Gilmore女子的不同追求！

祖母Emily曾说是她的婚姻是一条独木舟，需要她和丈夫两个人划，如果剩了她一个，只会在原地打转转；而Lorela像一艘橡皮艇，只需一个人划就能往前走。她感情上对丈夫依赖，经济上也是如此。她还曾向Lorela说，如果她这种婚姻中断了，为了维系生活，只能再嫁一个富人。

妈妈Lorela十六七岁就带着女儿自己打拼，经济独立，感情也是自由的，看似感情走了许多弯路，也是一种探索。事实i证明Luke是真爱，那也是患难之交，俩个人都有自己的店，经济各自独立的，非从属关系，维系他们的乃感情纽带。

女儿Rory无生活之忧，知识女性，便有了更高的追求---实现自我！这是她和Logan互相吸引的最根本的原因！由此可以解释他俩之间发生的所有事情。Rory理想当一名记者，实现她的价值，其间坎坎坷坷，却始终执着。Logan出身豪门，但不愿受家庭的控制，也要实现自我。相同的追求使俩人相知相恋，可惜Logan在求婚这件事上操之过急，让只有二十二岁且满怀抱负的Rory接受不了。

从祖母到妈妈，敢说是一种进步，然而从妈妈到女儿，或许也是一种进步吧？！不同时代的人有不同的追求，不同经历的人有不同的追求，不同层次的人有不同的追求，生活本来就不是一件容易的事情，谁也不能归纳成公式，还是仁者见仁智者见智吧。

附加说一下几个男人：

Logan：富家子弟，纨绔，直言快语，有上进心，奋斗过，但最终屈从了家族，与Rory不是通道人了。

Jess：爱耍酷、爱玩失踪的问题坏男孩，就如狗屎一样吸引混沌少女，尽管他后来当了作家，但他那一套已经对成熟的Rory不起作用了。编剧想告诉少女们这样一个道理：远离狗屎，少走弯路。

Dean：不错的一个男孩，只是太爱面子，不坚定，如果Rory最后认识的是他，或许会幸福的。

Christopher：Rory的生父，对Lorela来讲像一个幽灵，极具破坏力，但纠缠Lorela二十年未得正果，一个在感情方面长不大的大男孩，总是把生活搞得一团糟。

Max：Christopher的再生版，不同的是，Lorela对他具有破坏力。然而，是他自投罗网的，与学生家长谈恋爱，家长会上调情，不顾身份强追，教室里接吻，盲目地求婚，熟不知人家只将他当作替代品，结果可想而知，作为一个人民教师实在不应该。

Luke：Lorela对他没有很强的化学反应，但他能持之以恒，温水煮青蛙，终成正果。Rory爱之如父，Lorela嫁之为夫，就不多说了吧。

不知道已经看了多少遍的经典剧。 Gilmore Girls is my favourite TV series throughout the past decades. I've watched Friends repeatedly, it's easy to watch, funny to laugh, it's like a cup of hot chocolate in the cold winter making you feel safe and warm. Gilmore Girls is even better than that. The conversation is witty, fast, loquacious, satirical, full of pop culture and literature references. The cast is only the most good-looking, ingenious group of actors and actresses there ever is. And most importantly, it's a mother-daughter show happening in a small, appealing town called Stars Hollow in Connecticuit, the show revolves life stories of Lorelai Gilmore and Rory Gilmore (Lorelai Gilmore, the mother named her daughter after herself): their love lives, laughter, sorrows, significant life events, obsession with coffee, good music, books, pop cultures, witty verbal banters, and junk food.

To me, Gilmore Girls is a classic. Amy Sherman-Palladino is my favourite screenwriter other than Aaron Sorkin (the screenwriter for The Social Network, The West Wing and The Newsroom). She has won Primetime Emmy Awards for another creation of hers- The Marvelous Mrs Maisel. She is one of the trailblazers in this industry- an extremely talented producer and screenwriter. She is the sort of role model for a lot of women who seek to pursue a similar career.

The Marvellous Mrs Maisel- also created by Amy Sherman-Palladino

Spoiler alert! 剧透预警！！

The story of Rory Gilmore is charming, inspiring, yet screams elitism. The mother and daughter are not materialistic at all, however, they are from a wealthy, white, middle-class American family. On one point, the whole story is based on Rory's academic studies in Chilton and Yale, life in Stars Hollow, Friday-night dinner in Hartford with her grandparents (who sponsored her private school tuition and college tuition- Christopher, Rory's father sponsored her for Yale as well, she also has a trust fund set up for her by her grandparents), and upcoming career challenges. Rory was initially studying at Stars Hollow High, where she met her first love- Dean Forrester. She later transferred to a private school- Chilton and studied diligently for her life goal- Harvard University. Somehow she ended up going to Yale. She is an intimidatingly smart, driven girl who knows what she wants in life.

One of my favourite features of the show is definitely Rory's love life (I love her academic mind tremendously, I'm also nerdy and enjoy readings wholeheartedly). Dean, Jess, and Logan have shaped her perspectives on relationship. Dean is Rory's first love, he is the perfect boyfriend she could ever ask for. In Rory's own words, quote below:

Rory and Dean ran into each other after all these years again in Dosey's market

It was a mutual love-at-first-sight. They fell in love quickly and became the "it" couple of the town. It was a shame that they went different directions, Rory has set Harvard as her goal since she was three, Dean was just a boy moved from Chicago with his family to Stars Hollow, he doesn't have a specific plan for life after high school. They were each other's sweetheart, but life was too cruel to make Dean realize that Rory belongs to a bigger world, he had to let her go eventually.

Jess is so different from Dean. He is the bad guy that most teenage girls would fall for- good-looking, well-read, despises everything, etc. Rory and Jess have so much in common. He is smart enough to read all the books he can find, they can have conversations about books, music, cult movies, being defiant and reckless from time to time. Rory knows that she can relax and explore different sides of herself when she is with Jess. But Jess was emotionally unavailable for her in the end. He ran away from everything, he was being elusive about senior prom (Rory was really looking forward to attending prom with Jess), Rory had a bright future ahead of her, she moved on after the graduation trip to Europe with Lorelai.

Logan and Rory did not start on the right foot- it was like Elizabeth and Mr Darcy in Pride and Prejudice for a short period of time. But it turns out that they are actually right for each other on every aspect. They went through ups and downs hand in hand.If it weren't for the job on Obama's presidential campaign, they really would end up together.

This is just one great feature of the show, there is so much to watch, and it's definitely a classic among all those TV series in history.I highly recommend this show to anyone who loves classic TV series.

Wish you a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!

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jobless 的人Rory 跟回头重温第七季的人设不一致。按她这个path 及在耶鲁校报editior 的经验，这个年纪应该至少是个有一定影响力的报刊的editor。无房无工作的loser的可能性实在不大。不过虽然美颜都拦不住的老态这母女两还是几时年如一日的任性。所有的男友中最喜欢Logon，一直对反社会规范的Jess 无感。

最近重看整部剧，不同于5年前的迷惑，这次很肯定的认为这部剧从第5季的烂剧情开始到最后的续集，纯属就是编剧的胡编乱扯，很气愤。

气愤的理由不为别的，正因为太在意。

还有一个私心的理由，我个人在高中至大学以及后面工作的经历和Rory有太多相似的想法和迷茫了，正如好多年前看到短评里某位网友说的，大意是：“对前途的极致迷茫好像是每一位像Rory这样的乖学生都会经历的过程，甚至不分中外。”

Rory从顶尖的私立中学优秀毕业生，一路斩获哈佛、耶鲁、普林斯顿三所常春藤名校的Offer，到后来在大学里逐渐失去焦点光环，甚至因为新闻界大佬的一番话就备受打击，失去信心这段心路历程简直太具有代表性，放在如今的国内，那基本就是大多数小镇/城做题家在如愿以偿进入不错的大学都会遭遇的落差感。

当你发现你前面18年在家乡那座小城里引以为傲的学习成就，面对比你更优秀，甚至比你更早就取得的一群人时，那种几乎等同于信仰垮塌的巨大落差可以说恨不得分分钟吞掉你。正如剧里面Rory面对耶鲁那群人中龙凤一样，即便是在四人的小寝室，也同样有16岁就上大学的天才少女，这样的落差最终在面对Logan的父亲，也就是Rory一直以来梦想从事的新闻业界大佬的否定后，彻底倾泻而出，至此Rory整个人崩溃掉，这一整段，在看的时候，我整个人都是僵着的，就好像又重新经历了一边当初的失落一样。

经历的相似也使得我更期待故事后面的发展，谁能想到一直以来道德感挺高的Rory居然被编剧写成了连续偷情，甘当两次第三者的负面女性形象！！这样的发展，几乎就和前面的Rory以及对她家庭教育的描写完全相悖。

很多观众可能觉得，遭遇人生落差自甘堕落是件情理之中的事，然而我还是想用自己的亲身经历以及前期编剧对Rory的铺垫来说一说，像Rory这样从小到大骨子里就认准要做一件事的人，遇到这类大的落差很可能会消极迷茫很久，会否定自己，会变得非常不自信甚至自卑且敏感，甚至很多年不敢再向前一步，但就是不可能违背自己从小的道德感去干这种长期偷情的事，一开始不如意时和Dean意料之外的搞了第一次，行，如果编剧就此打住，把它描述成一次迷茫时期的失足和错误那这也无可厚非，没想到后面直接发展成了固定小三，好多集了俩人居然都在背着初婚的妻子偷情，这里不管是Dean和Rory，基本都和一开始编剧对其的描写相差甚远，按照一开始对Dean的描写，纵使后来意识到婚姻错误也会选择更优的方法处理，俩人商商量量约地点偷情到底是个什么鬼……

续集居然继续重蹈覆辙直接明目张胆的和Logan同进同出，还给Logan那么重的戏份，动不动就制造惊喜出场，好像Rory的喜怒哀乐全指望Logan一个人一样，拜托，大学毕业到32岁也快10年时间了，即便事业依然不如意，那也用不着写成这样不自爱没自尊的样子吧，动不动事业不顺就爱乱搞男女关系这点也不知道是大多数编剧导演的刻板印象还是啥的，好好的一部那么具有教育启发的好剧逐渐走成了《绯闻女孩》风格，可惜了前期的剧本！